Closing the Door – Not Because You Failed, But Because You Grew

  Poet Sylvia Plath on the courage to close doors: “I saw myself sitting in the crotch of this fig tree, starving to death, just because I couldn’t make up my mind which of the figs I would choose. I wanted each and every one of them, but choosing one meant losing all the rest, and, as I … [Read more...]

Stepping Out of the Struggle Loop

Let's be honest... Most of us have spent some portion of our lives stuck in a struggle loop. Different decades, different packaging - same pattern. At times it looks productive and noble, at other times it is just exhausting, not only to us, but to others. What do we do? Work harder, push longer, … [Read more...]

Change the Inner Scene – and the Story Will Follow

We are now in the year 2026 Many people are quietly - or not so quietly - looking for change. A deeper change. Not a new planner, not a refreshed routine, not another promise made in the hopeful glow of January. Real change. My husband Cody and I talked about writing this article together … [Read more...]

Life Is an Inside Job: Shape It, Craft It, Don’t Just Survive It

Are you a random character in your story - or the author of it? Have you been scripting a negative narrative for yourself as the main character? If so, remember: as the writer, you hold the pen. Rewrite the chapter, or your life will reflect a sad and predictable story-line. Instead, imagine a … [Read more...]

Swim In Your Lane – Stay Out Of Mine

  The phrase "swim in your lane, stay out of mine" can evoke a sense of boundaries, independence, and personal focus. While setting boundaries is essential for mental health and personal growth, the sentiment can sometimes contribute to feelings of angst and separation, especially when it … [Read more...]